On Findom and Wealth

I've only had one sub break up with me.

We had a fantastic dynamic, electric connection.

One day I decided I wanted to probe him on what he would think to know a domme was not wealthy.

He said it would defeat the point of serving. That she should have more money than any of her subs.

He told me what he has in savings. I told him he had more than me.

He broke it off. I was ok with this, because I prefer less shallow subs.

Still, the pressure to do class drag, pretend I'm richer than I am, to attract subs. To exude luxury. Except... the fact that I've been able to sell so many subs on wealth when I currently don't possess it should count for something, no? That I am savvy and scrappy enough to exude money when I have little to work with? I think only a confident, refined woman could achieve this. And aren't those traits more valuable as a dominant?

I do recognize it's called FINancial DOMination. The implication of being wealthy is that you're good at money management. Tbh, I would argue that people on a budget need good money management skills, especially to appear wealthier than they are. Sephora isn't cheap!

What do you think? Are you a domme or sub that feels that domme wealth is necessary in findom? Why or why not? Tell me in the comments. Thanks, all.